Choose to be pro-anorexic honestly, and I will respect your choice... but please know that when ever you choose a behavior, you, at that same moment, chose the consequences of that behavior. So if you choose to starve, you are choosing at the same time to risk your friendships, lose your hair, slow down your metabolism, etc., etc. Be clear about your decisions, your choice is powerful. Powerful enough to even kill other girls via the internet that you don't even know.
"pro - anorexia" is simply another way of saying you are actively devoted to having an eating disorder... and that you are willing to spend time in search of ways to be more creatively self-destructive...whether or not you have an Eating disorder when you join these pro anorexic communities it is true. You are now CHOOSING to become more of a fuck up. Sick people making other people sicker and calling it "support".
So stay with pro ana. These girls will actively help you in your quest to figure out how to destroy your self-esteem, ruin your daily mood, stress out people who love you, feel horrible about yourself & your life, fill your mind with nothing but calorie counters,weight and your imaginary fat. trust me, if you are fucked up before you join a pro ana community, you will be even worse once you get caught up in it. These are the places that will let your anorexia get totally out of control. Hell by the time you have finished, not even your parenst or ANYONE will be able to help you as you remain devoted to the girls that hide behind their Paris Hilton and Giselle icons.
You will never feel "good enough" or "thin enough" or "pretty enough" to earn the right to take up space in this world as long as you stick with your issues and do not make an effort to hal.
So log on and seek your instructions as to how you can feel unacceptable as you are, why would you ever want to recover when you have to fit into your identity...the fake computerized image of yourself...
"pro - anorexia" is consciously committing suicide, taking an agonizing long time, during which you get to suffer from various medical problems that drag on for years and age you faster... only to end up not living out your full life expectancy, never even reaching that blessed age where you supposedly won't care about your looks anymore anyway, and realizing at the last minute that you could have done something else with all your energy...so go on...love ANA...you will surely get nothing in return!